Buddhism Practices : Buddhist funeral rites

nqÿ iufha isß;laj mej;=fka ke;s fudllao fï y;a ojfia odkh - t;fldg w.yrejdod fyda isl=rdod ñh.sh whl=f.a wjika lghq;= lsÍu fydo keoao

oka fok wdldrh úúOdldrhs' flfkla‌ ñh.sh úg odkh fokjd' mqreoaola‌ jYfhka udislj fyda ta yd iudk fjk;a ld, iSudjka wkqj oka fokq ,nkjd' wdOHd;añl ;Dma;sh we;slr .ekSu i|yd oka fokq ,nkjd' fï l=uk wdldrhlska odkh ÿkako tys kshu m%;sM, ,eîug kï O¾udkql+,j ta ms<sn|j oek.; hq;=hs'

oka §fï§ wmg úYd, m%Yak we;s fjkjd' tlla‌ ;uhs y;a ojfia odkh' flfkla‌ ñhf.dia‌ Èk y;la‌ .; fjoa§ oka fokq ,nkjd' thg wms u;l odkh hkqfjka o jHjydr lrkjd'

ta jf.au flfkla‌ ñhf.dia‌ Èk yhla‌ .;fjoa§ nK lshkq ,nkjd' bkamiq y;ajeks ojfia odkh fokq ,nkjd'

kuq;a nqÿrcdKka jykafiaf.a ld,fha§ flfkla‌ ñh.sh úg frÈ lvlska T;d le,hg úis lsÍuhs isÿjqfKa' ñkS uia‌ lk oreKq i;=kaf.a wdydrh msKsi tu u< l|ka úislrkq ,enqjd'

uq,a wjêfha§ ñh.sh wh fjkqfjka odkh §u fyda u;l nK lSula‌ isÿ jqfKa keye' miqld,Skj ;uhs tu foaj,a we;sfj,d ;sfhkafka' tys jrola‌ wm olskafka keye' ta ojia‌j, hd. l%uhla‌ ;snqKd' Bg wdfoaYlhla‌ f,ihs u;l nK" u;l odkh hk ixl,am fn!oaO iudchg tl;= jkafka' mqrd;kfha oyu;a tf,ihs' tysÈ isÿ flfrkafka u<jqka Wfoid msx meñKùu;a' iD.a fõofha wd<dyK iQla‌;fha ;sfhkjd bIag mQ¾jlh lsh,d fohla‌' ñh.sh whg msx meñKùu" m%d¾:kd lsÍuhs tys§;a isÿ jqfKa' fuu me/Ks isß; ld,dka;rhla‌ ;sia‌fia weú;a th fn!oaO iudchg;a wkq.; fj,d bÈßhg hkjd' tys jrola‌ wmg fmfkkafka keye' i;a oji" ;=ka udih" wjqreoao hkd§ jYfhka ñh.sh wh fjkqfjka oka§ï" msx wkqfudaoka lsÍï fn!oaOhka isÿ lrkq ,nkjd' tf,iska fyda Èk fjka lr f.k odkhla‌ ms<s.ekaùu b;d fyd| fohla‌' fï whqßka fyda Èkhla‌ fjka lr fkd.;fyd;a wmg fï ishÆ foaj,a wu;l fjkak mq¿jka' oka fokak fõ,djla‌ keye' yeu fudfyd;lu wmg oka Èh yelshs' ldg fyda ysxidjla‌" mSvdjla‌ fkdlr Ôj;a ùu;a odkh §ula‌ nj wm wNhodkh ms<sn|j mq¿,aj idlÉPd lroa§ meyeÈ,s lrkq ,enqjd'

odkfhka isÿ lrkq ,nkqfha f,daN" oafõI" fuday hk wl=i, uQ,hka ke;s lsÍuhs' th j¾Okh fjoa§ wmf.ka ffjrh" fl%daOh bj;a fjkjd' nqÿoyu wkqj ´kEu fj,djl oka Èh yelshs' kuq;a ñh.sh mqoa.,hl= fjkqfjka odkh §ug Èk jljdkq fjkalr .ekSu jvd m%dfhda.slhs' túg tu odkh §ug ;sfhk bvlv jeähs'

wm lshuqflda mjqf,a .Dy uQ,slhd ke;fyd;a mshd ñh.shd lsh,d' mshd ñhf.dia‌ ;=ka udihla‌ .;fjoa§ odkhla‌ Èh hq;= hEhs tu mjqf,a Woúh l,amkd lf<d;a ta i|yd uq¿ mjqf,au Woúh tl;= fjkjd'

fuh olsk uEKshkag mjd we;sjkafka oeä i;=gla‌' fuh mrïmrdfjka mrïmrdjg hkjd' ta ;=< isß;la‌ f.dvkef.kjd' isß;a úß;a isÿ lsÍu l=i,hla‌ nj nqÿrcdKka jykafia foaYkd l<d' j;dj;a bgq lsÍfuka isÿ jkafka mskla‌' flfkla‌ ñhf.dia‌ y;aojila‌ .;fjoa§ odkhla‌ fokq ,nkjd' thg wms lshkafka u;l odkh lsh,hs' Bg fmr Èk tkï flkl= ñhf.dia‌ ih ojila‌ .;fjoa§ nKla‌ lshkq ,nkjd' th wm y÷kajkafka u;l nK hkqfjkqhs' y;a ojila‌ ;=< fujeks msxlula‌ isÿ lsÍug fn!oaO iudch fm<efUkafka wehs@ flfkla‌ ñh.sh úg i;a Èkla‌ hk;=re wka;¾Núl i;a;ajhl= f,i ^.kaOínhl=& Ôj;a jk njg úYajdihla‌ ;sfhkjd' fuh wfma fohla‌ fkdfjhs' fuh yskaÿ wdl,amhla‌' flfia fyda fõjd §ug is;a myod .ekSu l=uk Èkhla‌ fyda mokï lrf.k odkhla‌ §u jrola‌ fkdfjhs'

wm fn!oaO iudcfha ;sfhk ;j;a je/È wdl,amhla‌ fï fudfydf;a§u u;la‌ lr§u iqÿiqhs lsh,d wm ys;kjd'

fndfyda wjia‌:dj,§ yskaÿ wdl,amj,g wm uq,a;ekla‌ fok nj fmakjd' wm fkdoekqj;aju yskaÿ wdl,am je<|f.k ;sfnkjd' flkl=g ´kEu ojil ñhhkak mq¿jka' kuq;a tu ñh.sh flkdf.a wjika lghq;= fjkqfjka kshu lr.;a ojila‌ ;sfhkjd' w.yrejdod" isl=rdod ñh.sh whf.a wjika lghq;= isÿ fkdl< hq;=hs lshd wm w;r u;hla‌ ;sfhkjd' fuh fn!oaO iïm%odh fkdfõ'

yskaÿ Nla‌;slhkaf.a ;sfhkjd ;%smqIalr lshd fhda.hla‌' th wiqn fhda.hla‌ f,ihs ie,flkafka' tu wiqn fhda.h fhfokafka w.yrejdod yd isl=rdod Èkj,hs' fuu fhda.h ilia‌ùfï iudcuh jákdlula‌ ;sfhkak mq¿jka' th msßisÿNdjh ms<sn| m%Yakhla‌'

tod bkaÈhdfõ isá nuqfKda ish ia‌kdk lghq;= i|yd fhdod .;af;a w.yrejdod yd isl=rdod hk Èk folhs' Tjqka .x.dkï kÈhg meñK ia‌kdkh lroa§ u< ñkS ..Û Èf.a mdù tkjd' fuh Tjqkaf.a ia‌kdk l%shdj,shg ndOdjla‌ jqKd' tksid nuqfKda úiska w.yrejdod iy isl=rdod hk Èkj, ñh.sh whf.a wjika lghq;= fkdl< hq;= hEhs m%ldY l<d'

fï ldrKh;a wm by; i|yka l< ldrKh;a ksihs w.yrejdod iy isl=rdod ñh.sh whf.a wjika lghq;= fkdl< hq;=hs hk u;h iudc.; jqfKa'

w.yrejdod fyda isl=rdod ñh.sh whl=f.a wjika lghq;= lsÍu lsisu jrola‌ keye' iudc.; w÷re mg, ksihs fujeks u;j,g iudcfha bvla‌ ,efnkafka' fuu ;;a;ajhu ;uhs wm ñ:Hdj f,i y÷kajkafka' ,xldfõ muKla‌ fkdfjhs yeu fohla‌u ÈhqKqhs lshk weußldfõ mjd fujeks ñ:Hd u; úYajdi lrkjd' úúO m%n, rgj,;a ñ:Hd u; je<| .;a;d lshd wm tAjd je<|.; hq;= keye' fuu ñ:Hd u;j,g hg fkdù Ôú;h foi h:d¾:jd§j ne,Sug nqÿoyñka wmg W.kajk foa b;d m%n,hs'

wm tla‌;rd Èkhl wE; m<d;l mdxYql+,hg jeähd' mia‌jre 1'00 g tys jeäh wmg wd.ñl j;dj;a lsÍug mia‌jre 4'45 muK jk ;=re /£ isàug isÿ jqKd' wm úuiqjd fufia m%udoùula‌ fjkafka wehso lsh,d' túg tu ksjfia Woúh m%ldY l<d ñksh t<shg .ekSug kel; Wodjk;=re bkakjd lsh,d' ñksh t<shg .kak;a kel;la‌ yo,d' fïjd fudk;rï ñ:Hdo@ uefrkak kel;la‌ ke;akï" bmfokak kel;la‌ ke;akï" wehs ueßÉp fohla‌ bj;a lsÍug kel;la‌ yokafka' wehs fï ;rï ñ:Hdjkag hg fjkafka' fuhska jkafka nqoaêuh iïm%odh ì|jeàuhs'

flfkla‌ ñh.sh úg wm wkjYH ìhla‌ we;s lr.; hq;= keye' bmÿKq yeu flfkla‌u ñhhkjd' thhs Ôú;fha ia‌jNdjh'

fuh f;areï .ekSu i|yd Oïu moÜ‌G l;dfõ we;=<;a fuu l;dj b;du jeo.;a'

Èkla‌ tla‌;rd mqoa.,fhla‌ ;u l=vd mq;=;a iu. l=Uqrg hkjd f.dú;eka lsÍu i|yd' ál fõ,djla‌ hoa§ mq;dg i¾mhl= oIaG lr,d ñhhkjd' fuu mqoa.,hd ;u orejd ñh.sh nj ielyer oek .ekSfuka miqj ìßhg mKsúvhla‌ hjkjd .skaor;a /f.k n;a uq,a foll=;a /f.k tkak lsh,d' ìß| n;auq,a fol;a" .skaor;a /f.k wdjdg miqj u<l|g .sks ;shd wjika lghq;= isÿ lr n;auq,a fol;a ld f.or hkjd' fuu l;dfõ ;sfhkafka fudk;rï wkd;aujd§ o¾Ykhla‌o@ mD:.ack mqoa.,hka jYfhka wmg wfma orejl= ñh.sh úg ord.; fkdyels fYdalhla‌ we;sfjkjd' kuq;a nqoaO o¾Ykfhka fmdaIs; wm h:d¾:jd§j Ôú;h foi ne,Sug yqre úh hq;=hs'

fuu l;d mqj;g wkqj meyeÈ,s jk ldrKhla‌ jkafka tod hfula‌ ñh.sh úg tu wdodyk lghq;= flreKq ir, nj wo ld,Skj hï hï fjkia‌lïj,g Ndck fjñka wdodyk lghq;= f.!rjkSh ia‌jNdjhlska isÿ flfrkjd' th jrola‌ fkdfõ' tfy;a wms fï iïnkaOfhka oeä ñ;Hd u;j, fkdwe,sh hq;=hs'

O¾u ixjdoh jika; ,shkf.a
r;au,dk O¾u m¾fhaIKd,fha yEf.dv úmia‌iS ysñ

Source - Divaina